To cut a long story short I have split up with my boyfriend. I've moved out of the flat and I'm currently living between my mothers house and on my friends sofa. Its not an ideal situation half way through my final year of university but I had to get out. I don't want to go into every detail of what induced the break up because I don't think that it is necessary. All I want to say is that for the past five years I have unknowingly been in an emotionally abusive relationship. Its incredibly difficult to type that because I had no idea that I was a victim. It got to the point where I was just a shadow of my former self. I created a bubble and pretended that things were ok, I thought I could power through it but it was destroying me.
I don't want this post to be a 'sob-story' in any way I just want to spread the message that it can happen to anyone and you may not even realise whats going on. If you have any suspicions please check here & remember ITS NOT YOUR FAULT! Its better to escape before things get out of hand. I'm away from it now and I feel like I'm a much stronger person. I can concentrate on whats best for me.
I've not been single since I was 15 so as you can probably imagine its a massive change for me! I'm feeling really positive about the future and I'm sure that I'll get back into the swing of blogging again soon-I've missed it! So I just wanted to say thanks for sticking with me and I'll be making a comeback!